So I’ve been using tinder for about two months now and I make it very clear that I’m not looking for a serious relationship and the most we will ever be is friends with benefits. I matched with a guy and we started to hit it off…. Until he mentioned he was married. I tried to be open minded and not judge immediately so I asked if it was an open relationship or the like.
Watching: Had my first encounter with a married man on tinder
Nope. This guy was in a committed relationship. So I wrote back yikes and said that hey maybe I’ll match with his wife and we can hit it off without him. Dude got upset fast and I unmatched him.
Does anyone else have these kinds of stories?
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1 year ago
Before I met my gf, I was on tinder a lot. I kept getting messages from various married women to bang them while their husband watched.
One day I matched with a chick I thought looked familiar but she had different pictures, hair, hair color, name etc.
We met at her place, one thing led to another and the jiggy jiggy went down…..
It wasn’t until I heard a noise from the closet that I realized her husband had been hiding in there watching the whole time.
Worst part, the noise I heard was him cumming….while she and I came. We literally all climaxed at the same time.
I figured out she was someone who had messaged me like 5 months prior, trying to fuck while her husband watched.
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Original Poster1 year ago
Holy shit that was a wild read.
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1 year ago
I had a bio once that said “when the hubbys away the wife will play” That was enough tinder for that day
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1 year ago
Yes, with married women.
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Original Poster1 year ago
Yikes to that one too
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1 year ago
Ive never encountered it in a match. But the number of profiles I would see where they put it in their description is bananas.
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Original Poster1 year ago
Or discrete is a must.
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1 year ago
It’s shockingly common here on Tinder in Japan. Men and women will straight up say they’re in a relationship/married and just looking for something on the side in their bio. At least when they’re that upfront about it, it’s easy to weed through them.
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1 year ago
Just why? No shade, but you’re on a hook-up dating app, and specify you’re looking for friends with benefits. That’s a married man’s dream right there, and exactly what they’re looking for. The ones looking for action on the side that is, and there are many, sadly…
Don’t put in your profile that married guys are not welcomed – the next one just won’t tell you.
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